We are also very grateful that she is 14 months old. She loves to sit and watch as I do things in the kitchen. I let her grab some baby tomatoes. They were really little ones, maybe a little bigger than a standard marble. We always cut her grapes in half, but these were already pretty small so I didn't-she chews everything as she has 12 teeth. My mistake. She choked on one and couldn't breathe. I immediately flipped her over my arm and did infant back blows that I learned in CPR/First Aid training. After a few back blows it flew out and she is fine. Very scary.
She stopped nursing sometime this past month. It was so sporadic by the time she hit 13 months I'm not exactly sure when she stopped officially. Probably about 13.5 months. I was so blessed to be able to go that long. She also has started eating wheat...although her diapers are AWFUL, it isn't causing any rash, she doesn't seem unhappy (or any unhappier than she normally is, she still is very serious and upsets easily) and had a HUGE growth spurt when she started eating crackers/regular cereals/pasta so we're going to keep her on wheat and just monitor her. Praise the Lord we're all eating on the same diet these days!!!